BREATHE Circles partners with organizations and communities to change how they hold relationship, power, conflict, accountability, leadership, and community. Not as a program. As a practice.
Ashley Ellis · Founder, BREATHE Circles
Restorative Justice Practitioner · Circle Keeper
What We Mean by Practice
Restorative justice, transformative justice, and healing justice are not separate program areas. They are lenses through which BREATHE plans, facilitates, leads, implements, learns, and makes decisions.
Together they form a way of working — with organizations, with communities, and within ourselves.
How We Work
Helping organizations move justice practices from training or aspiration into relationships, structures, leadership, accountability, conflict response, and everyday culture. This is long-view, relationship-centered work.
Implementation strategy · leadership coaching · organizational assessment · restorative design · long-term partnership
Developing the people who hold the work. Through training, coaching, circle practice, reflection, technical assistance, communities of practice, and genuine care for the practitioners themselves.
Training · coaching · circle keeper development · communities of practice · practitioner care
Holding circle, dialogue, retreats, community-system spaces, organizational conflict, repair, and complex conversations across difference and power. Sometimes the most important thing is the quality of presence in the room.
Circle · dialogue · retreats · conflict transformation · repair processes · community convenings
Supporting implementation strategy, technical assistance, learning systems, restorative organizational design, reflection, and adaptation. Understanding what is happening, what is shifting, and what needs to change.
Implementation strategy · technical assistance · organizational learning · program design · relational mapping
Our Practice Principles
We walk with, not ahead of. We build alongside people and remain in relationship through complexity.
Trust and relational capacity are not preconditions. They are themselves part of the work.
Participation is not the same as power. We name this — and design for it.
Healing, consent, reflection, and sustainability are implementation infrastructure — not afterthoughts.
We return in order to move forward. Innovation does not require abandoning what came before.
Selected Work
What began as an effort to implement RJ as a process became whole-organization transformation — changing how people navigated conflict, held responsibility, made meaning, and embodied practice. Ashley also directed a short film documenting the journey.
A practitioner community of practice grounded in circle, learning, coaching, reflection, and care. Built on the insight that justice practices cannot remain sustainable when the people holding them are unsupported or depleted.
A decades-long relationship: from Youth Advocate to Director of Restorative Justice to first consulting client. Youth justice, alternatives to incarceration, credible messenger practice, and restorative implementation in community.
Moving restorative practice beyond a single training and into school relationships, culture, leadership, and conflict response. Implementation support across approximately 18 schools in New York City.
Ashley Ellis
Founder · BREATHE Circles · Restorative Justice PractitionerAbout Ashley
Born and raised on the West Side of Chicago, Ashley's practice is rooted in African-centered ways of knowing, womanist tradition, collective care, and a spirit-centered approach to healing and liberation.
From the Chicago Restorative Justice Hubs — under the mentorship of Cheryl Graves and Pamela Purdie — to leading restorative justice implementation at Community Connections for Youth, to building BREATHE Circles as an organizational and community practice: the thread is relationship, practice, and the long view.
"My practice is relational, emergent, and honest — shaped by what a moment, team, or community is actually asking for."
Full Story →In Their Words
Ashley doesn't just facilitate — she holds. We left changed, not just informed.
Participant · IRL Minnesota
Working with Ashley is one of the best organizational decisions we've made. She's the real thing.
M. Simpson, MPH · IRL
It felt like a reset. Learning new information — but learning information we always had. It felt original. It was an opportunity to find our common values and lean into them to create community.
Cody Cotton · Co-Director, IRL
There is no going back. I see things now and ask: why are we doing this punitive thing? Why do we need to know who's to blame? Can't we start with who's been harmed and what they need to heal?
Kathleen Call · Associate Director, IRL
Trusted By
If your organization is trying to move from believing something different to actually practicing something different — we should talk.
Engagements range from a single facilitated experience to multi-year implementation partnerships. The right starting place is an honest conversation.
Begin a Conversation →Our Practice
Restorative, transformative, and healing justice are not separate curricula that BREATHE delivers. They are lenses through which we plan, facilitate, lead, implement, learn, and make decisions together.
The Framework
These are not sequential steps. They are simultaneous orientations that shape everything BREATHE holds — from planning to implementation to how we close a session. Select each lens to learn more.
Restorative justice asks fundamentally different questions than the systems most of us inherited — questions that change the process, the outcome, and who gets to be part of the conversation. It is not merely a conflict resolution tool. It is a set of principles and a way of life.
Fania E. Davis — civil rights attorney, writer, scholar, and founding director of Restorative Justice for Oakland Youth — defines restorative justice as:
"A justice that seeks not to punish, but to heal. A justice, according to Kay Pranis, that is not about getting even, but about getting well. A justice that seeks to transform broken lives, relationships, and communities, rather than shatter them further. A justice that seeks reconciliation, rather than a deepening of conflict."
— Fania E. Davis
At its core, restorative justice is the practice of sawubona and ubuntu — the practice of being kin to each other. How do we look out for and show up for each other? How do we live in right relationship not only after harm has occurred, but as a daily practice of community?
In BREATHE's practice, RJ is not a program to install. It is a way of being — proactively building the relational trust, shared agreements, and belonging that make it possible to navigate conflict when it comes. Ashley's circle practice and RJ lineage are shaped by practitioners like Kay Pranis, Fania Davis, Cheryl Graves, and Pamela Purdie — rooted in the circle traditions of the Tlingit people and in African communitarian ways of being in community.
Transformative justice asks what restorative justice alone cannot fully answer: what are the conditions that produced the harm in the first place? What systems, structures, and arrangements of power are generating the problems that we keep trying to address one incident at a time?
Transformative justice does not only repair what happened. It works toward changing the conditions so that harm happens less — and with less severity — over time. It holds individual accountability alongside structural accountability, and community healing alongside systems change.
In BREATHE's work, TJ keeps the larger picture in view: who holds power, whose knowledge counts, whose experiences shape the decisions being made — and what it would actually take to build something different.
Healing justice is a political framework and strategy, defined by cultural strategist Cara Page and the Kindred Southern Healing Justice Collective. It identifies how communities can holistically respond to and intervene on intergenerational trauma and systemic violence — building collective care and safety practices that transform the consequences of oppression.
Healing justice is not wellness programming or individual self-care. It is a political commitment rooted in Black feminist traditions and radical Southern traditions, recovering ancestral and community-led practices of care used by survivors of systemic oppression. It asks: how do we build what is needed to sustain liberation work — and the people doing it — over the long term?
In BREATHE's practice, healing justice means that care, consent, rest, reflection, and sustainability are not afterthoughts. They are implementation infrastructure. The work cannot last if the people holding it cannot.
Sitting in circle does not erase institutional, racial, positional, or other forms of power. Power must still be named, designed for, and attended to deliberately. Circle is a practice, not a solution.
Circle as Embodied Practice
Circle is not a facilitation format. It is not a seating arrangement. It is not an intervention reserved for moments of conflict. Circle is an embodied relational practice — and in BREATHE's work, it is a primary vehicle for how RJ, TJ, and HJ become real in a room.
Five Practice Principles
BREATHE does not arrive with answers. We build alongside people, remain in relationship through complexity, and support partners in strengthening what they know while building what they need. This is one of Ashley's foundational commitments — rooted directly in the Chicago Restorative Justice Hub tradition of radical hospitality, relentless engagement, and patient accompaniment.
Trust, belonging, relational capacity, shared understanding, and the ability to navigate difference are not simply built so that the "real work" can happen. They are the real work. BREATHE designs for relationship from the first moment — because the quality of relationship is what determines whether anything else holds.
BREATHE asks: Who shapes decisions? Whose knowledge counts? Who holds authority, and who experiences the consequences? Can people see their influence reflected in what happens next? These are not rhetorical questions. They are design questions — ones that must be answered differently in every room BREATHE enters.
Transformation should not require continuous depletion or extraction from the people holding it. BREATHE builds in healing, consent, reflection, preparation, care, and sustainability — not as an add-on, but as a core design requirement. The work cannot last if the people doing it cannot.
Innovation does not require abandoning what came before. BREATHE retrieves practices, wisdom, history, lineage, and community knowledge — and asks what they teach us about what needs to be built now. The past is not a constraint. It is a resource.
Lineage
Circle is not a tool that restorative justice invented. The peacemaking circle as a restorative practice draws directly from the circle tradition of the Tlingit people — a living Indigenous practice of gathering, accountability, and community healing sustained for generations in Southeast Alaska and the Pacific Northwest Coast. And the relational, communal ethic at the heart of sawubona — we see you, in your full humanity, including your ancestors — and ubuntu — I am because we are — are among the ancestral foundations of the modern restorative justice movement, rooted in African communitarian values. These are not origins to borrow from. They are traditions to acknowledge, honor, and carry with care.
Ashley's own restorative justice practice is rooted in the Chicago Restorative Justice Hubs, where she trained under Cheryl Graves and Pamela Purdie. The practice commitments she carries — radical hospitality, accompaniment, relentless engagement, learning community, building relationships — were not adopted as a framework. They were absorbed as a way of being in the work. This lineage is not a credential. It is a responsibility.
Roots of Circle
Tlingit Peacemaking Circle
The peacemaking circle as a restorative practice draws directly from the circle tradition of the Tlingit people of Southeast Alaska and the Pacific Northwest Coast — a living practice of gathering, truth-telling, accountability, and community healing that has sustained communities for generations. This is not an origin to borrow from. It is a tradition to acknowledge, honor, and carry with deep care.
Sawubona · Ubuntu · African Indigenous Ways of Being
Sawubona
"Sawubona — a Zulu greeting in South Africa, means 'We see you.' It refers not just to the individuals meeting, but it includes our ancestors, our tribe, our village. The response is Yebo Sawubona, 'Yes we see you too.' It is an act of seeing and embracing each other in our full humanity, with all our quirks, our weaknesses, our strengths, and our potential in this life. It is a recognition of our shared humanity and interconnection. Seeing becomes an act of dialogue."
— Guided definition for BREATHE's practice
Ubuntu
"Ubuntu — a South African concept that was the underpinning of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission. It's a word that says 'I am human because you are.' It acknowledges that people are people through other people. Ubuntu is the principle of caring for each other, of being in solidarity. It is a spirit of mutual aid and mutual survival, meaning that our individual humanity is expressed through our relationship with another's humanity and our own humanity is affirmed in return."
— Guided definition for BREATHE's practice
"A person with ubuntu is open and available to others, affirming of others, does not feel threatened that others are able and good, for he or she has a proper self-assurance that comes from knowing that he or she belongs in a greater whole and is diminished when others are humiliated or diminished when others are tortured or oppressed, or treated as if they were less than who they are."
— Desmond Tutu
Chicago Elders + Teachers · Practice Lineage
Cheryl Graves
Founder, Chicago RJ Hubs · Teacher
Pamela Purdie
Chicago RJ Hubs
Mashaun Ali
Trained by Cheryl · The first person Ashley ever sat in circle with
Peacemaking Circle Tradition
Kay Pranis
Circle keeper, author, practitioner — carrying forward Indigenous circle traditions in restorative justice contexts
Restorative + Healing Justice
Fania Davis
Co-founder, Restorative Justice for Oakland Youth · author of The Little Book of Race and Restorative Justice
"We are not incorporating these practices as an exercise in alignment. We are returning to a practice tradition this work was built from and carrying it forward."
Work With Us
BREATHE does not prescribe the same approach to everyone. What we hold together is shaped by where you are, what you're carrying, and what is actually needed — not by a fixed menu of services.
Implementation + Organizational Transformation
Many organizations have aligned on restorative or healing justice values — and then discovered that values on paper and practice in relationships are very different things. This body of work is for organizations ready to close that gap.
BREATHE supports organizations in building the structures, relationships, leadership capacity, conflict response systems, and everyday cultural practices that allow transformation to actually take root and last. This is not a training. It is a long-view, relationship-centered partnership.
Practitioner Development + Learning
The practitioners, facilitators, circle keepers, educators, advocates, and social workers who hold this work daily need more than a training. They need a practice — and a community in which to develop and sustain it.
BREATHE's practitioner development work is grounded in the insight behind Who Keeps the Keeper: that justice practices cannot remain sustainable when the people holding them are unsupported, isolated, or depleted. Building practitioner capacity means building practitioner care.
Facilitation + Relational Practice
Some of the most important work happens in a single gathering — if the right container is built, if the right conditions are held, if presence and rigor and care come with the person who holds the space.
BREATHE's facilitation work spans circles and community convenings, organizational dialogue and conflict transformation, retreats and repair processes, and complex conversations across difference and power. What all of it shares is a commitment to the quality of what happens in the room.
Strategy + Organizational Learning
Strategy in BREATHE's hands is not a planning document. It is a relational process of understanding what is happening — in relationships, in structures, in culture — and deciding together what needs to shift.
This work often accompanies implementation — helping organizations learn, adapt, and build the internal capacity to sustain transformation beyond the initial partnership.
How We Engage
BREATHE does not arrive with a fixed package. Every engagement begins with an honest conversation about context, capacity, and what the moment actually requires. What comes next is designed from that — not from a catalog.
Engagements may be short or long. Local or national. Virtual, in-person, or hybrid. They may begin with a single circle and grow into a years-long implementation partnership. Or they may be exactly what they need to be in one day.
What BREATHE brings in any engagement is the same: presence, rigor, care, a commitment to relationship, and a long view toward what you're trying to build.
Begin a Conversation →Ready?
The right starting place is an honest conversation — about where you are, what you're carrying, and whether this is the right fit.
Begin a Conversation →Selected Work
These are not case studies with fabricated metrics. They are relationships — and what was built, held, and learned within them.
What began as a last-minute invitation to speak on a webinar became a 2.5-year organizational partnership. Ashley came in as a guest speaker — not knowing exactly what IRL was, not expecting what would unfold. By the end of that first conversation, people were asking: what would it look like to bring restorative justice into the fellowship not just as a training, but as a practice? The deeper Ashley looked, the more she recognized that what IRL needed went further than what had been named.
What followed was a sustained process of conflict response redesign, organizational values and community agreements, structural and accountability reflection, leadership coaching, dialogue, learning experiences, and culture change. Not as separate interventions — as interwoven aspects of how the organization was learning to hold itself.
It felt like a reset. Learning information we always had. It felt original — an opportunity to find our common values and lean into them to create community.
Cody Cotton · Co-Director, IRL
I knew that there were people who needed to be healed and heard — and the restorative justice process allows that to happen. I was part of the group that needed to be heard and healed.
Ms. Bobby Simpson · Senior Advisor, IRL
We don't only have to step into this paradigm when conflict or harm happens. We should always be in a constant and consistent practice of strengthening and building and being in community.
J. Robin Moon · Associate Director, IRL
There is no going back. I see things now and ask: why are we doing this punitive thing? Why do we need to know who's to blame? Can't we start with who's been harmed and what they need to heal?
Kathleen Call · Associate Director, IRL
Featured Documentary
A storytelling-based restorative justice documentary produced as IRL reached the close of its journey. Shot through a storytelling circle and in-depth interviews, it captures the voices of scholars, leaders, and community partners who carried RJ forward. Ceremony and archive — a healing-centered closing ritual and a record of what sustained transformation looks like from the inside.
Directed by Ashley Ellis · Interdisciplinary Research Leaders · University of Minnesota + Robert Wood Johnson Foundation
Ashley Ellis in conversation with Luis Ortega (Storytellers for Change) and the IRL team — on restorative justice, narrative, mental models, and how storytelling and RJ work together to shift the systems we create.
The animating question behind Who Keeps the Keeper is simple: who takes care of the people who hold this work? Practitioners, circle keepers, facilitators, advocates — people who pour out daily — rarely have the community, the reflection, or the care infrastructure they need to sustain what they're carrying.
WKTK was built to address that. In partnership with Trinity Church Wall Street, BREATHE developed a multi-year community of practice grounded in circle, ongoing learning, coaching, reflection, and genuine practitioner care. Not a one-time training. Not a seminar. A sustained learning community that invests in the whole person doing the whole work.
Justice practices cannot remain sustainable if the people holding them are unsupported, isolated, or depleted. WKTK is the practice infrastructure that addresses that directly.
The insight from WKTK has shaped how BREATHE thinks about practitioner development across all of its work: that building practitioner capacity and building practitioner care are not separate activities. They are the same activity.
WKTK is now in its fourth cohort and continues to evolve.
WKTK Testimonial
I'm leaving this retreat having made my peace, full of joy, and overwhelmed and excited to be able to share that joy with others — in the hopes that they also will find their joy and make their peace.
WKTK Participant · Who Keeps the Keeper
This is the 21st century and we need to redefine revolution. This planet needs a people's revolution — a humanist revolution. Not about bloodshed. The fundamental goal must be peace. We need to be weapons of mass construction. Weapons of mass love.
WKTK Participant · Who Keeps the Keeper
Thank you so much to BREATHE. Thank you to Trinity Philanthropies for making this opportunity possible. We need to be weapons of mass construction. Weapons of mass love.
WKTK Participant · Who Keeps the Keeper
Ashley's relationship with Community Connections for Youth is one of the defining through-lines of her practice. It began when she was a youth advocate through the Youth Advocate Programs, working alongside CCFY in the South Bronx and Harlem. It grew into a deeper organizational role — Director of Restorative Justice — where she led efforts to build a culture of restorative justice within CCFY and beyond.
As Director, Ashley developed and implemented restorative justice training for staff and community partners, facilitated peacemaking circles, designed train-the-trainer practices, and oversaw school-wide restorative implementation. CCFY's Restorative Justice Training Institute grew from that work.
CCFY was BREATHE's first consulting client — a relationship that grew from the inside out, and that continues to evolve through ongoing technical assistance and circle-based practice.
This partnership demonstrates youth justice alternatives to incarceration, credible messenger implementation, community-system collaboration, and what long-term restorative implementation actually requires when it is built from genuine relationship rather than contracted service.
The most common mistake in school-based restorative justice implementation is treating it as a training event. Someone comes in, delivers content, and leaves. Nothing in the actual culture, leadership, conflict response system, or relational structure of the school changes. When the next conflict happens, the school reverts to what it has always known.
BREATHE's NYC DOE work was explicitly designed to resist that pattern. Across approximately 18 schools, the work involved training and technical assistance — but also implementation support, leadership engagement, and the kind of sustained relational presence that allows a school to actually begin practicing something different.
Moving restorative practice from a single training into school relationships, culture, leadership, and conflict response is not a program. It is a shift in how people understand what school is for and how they are together within it.
What BREATHE supported in these schools was not compliance with a restorative framework. It was the beginning of a genuine cultural orientation — toward belonging, accountability, and repair as ways of being in a building together.
More From BREATHE
Who Are You? — Ashley Ellis on Restorative Justice
This Restorative Justice Life — Episode 3
Restorative Practices in Action — Panel Discussion · The Restorative Justice Initiative
Restorative Justice + Racially Just Schools — Brooklyn Restorative Justice Project · Brooklyn Community Foundation + NYC DOE
About Ashley
"Who Are You? — Ashley Ellis on Restorative Justice"
Practice Lineage
Born and raised on the West Side of Chicago, Ashley's restorative and healing justice practice was not built in a classroom. It was built in relationship — first with communities navigating harm and transformation, and then with organizations trying to build something different.
For over a decade, she has walked alongside young people, practitioners, schools, organizations, and communities navigating healing, belonging, accountability, and transformation. Her practice is relational, emergent, and honest — shaped by what a moment, team, or community is actually asking for.
Training under Cheryl Graves and Pamela Purdie. Absorbing the practice commitments that have shaped everything since: radical hospitality, accompaniment, relentless engagement, building relationships, learning community.
Youth advocacy work in the South Bronx and Harlem through Youth Advocate Programs, in partnership with Community Connections for Youth. Building practice from the ground up alongside young people navigating systems.
Leading restorative justice implementation across Community Connections for Youth — staff development, accountability, conflict response, training, circle practice, and the RJ Training Institute. Also serving as RJ Director at the School for Democracy and Leadership, a partner school in the Brooklyn Restorative Justice Project with Brooklyn Community Foundation and NYC DOE — a four-year initiative to develop a sustainable model for school discipline reform and dismantle the school-to-prison pipeline.
Founding BREATHE Circles as a consulting and implementation practice. CCFY becomes the first consulting client. The practice grows to include organizational implementation, practitioner development, facilitation, and strategy across 22+ organizations nationally.
Co-Founder and Co-Executive Director of The BREATHE Collective. Author of the forthcoming book Who Keeps the Keeper. Continuing to hold the work at the intersection of relationship, power, practice, healing, accountability, implementation, and community.
What Ashley Holds
Ashley's practice is grounded in African-centered ways of knowing, womanist tradition, collective care, and a spirit-centered approach to healing and liberation. She shows up as a practitioner, a circle keeper, a strategist, a facilitator, a storycatcher, and a bridge builder.
She is capable of speaking both community and institution — and of holding the tension between them without flattening either.
Storytellers for Change
Ashley is a practitioner of Storytellers for Change — a methodology developed by Luis Ortega, founder and director of Storytellers for Change and a close colleague and partner. It is part of Ashley's practitioner toolkit, supporting reflection, meaning-making, connection, and intentional story-crafting in community and organizational settings.
As the IRL team described it: stories told over and over become narratives; narratives spread over time become mental models; and mental models become the foundation of the systems we create. If we want to shift systems, storytelling has to be part of the process. Ashley's work with Storytellers for Change lives at exactly that intersection.
Storytellers for Change is not synonymous with advocacy, communications, or public relations. It is a practice of making meaning — one that Ashley integrates into her broader approach to facilitation, accompaniment, and organizational learning.
Where appropriate, Luis may partner or co-facilitate select Storytellers for Change experiences with Ashley.
B.R.E.A.T.H.E.
BREATHE is not simply a name. It is a commitment — a set of orientations toward the work and toward each other.
Expand, not Empower — because Empower was something done to people. Expand is what happens between us.
The Work, in Numbers
These numbers are secondary evidence — context for the relationships and practices described throughout this site.
Ashley in Conversation
This Restorative Justice Life — Episode 3
Restorative Practices in Action — Panel Discussion · The Restorative Justice Initiative
Begin a Conversation
This is not a discovery call form. It is an invitation to begin a real conversation about what is happening in your organization or community — and whether BREATHE is the right partner to walk alongside you.
This work is carried out on land that has always belonged to Indigenous peoples. That matters, and I hold it.
BREATHE Circles + The BREATHE Collective
BREATHE Circles is the consulting and practice arm of the broader BREATHE ecosystem. The organizational and implementation work you see here is held by BREATHE Circles.
The BREATHE Collective holds the broader community, programmatic, and movement ecosystem — including Who Keeps the Keeper as a community-facing initiative, and the larger healing justice work that BREATHE is rooted in.
Visit The BREATHE Collective →"BREATHE Circles is the consulting and practice arm of the broader BREATHE ecosystem — rooted in the same commitments, oriented toward organizational and community transformation."